Watching the discovery channel is one of my greatest pass
times. I love to see the courting process of different species. If I died and
came back as an animal I hope it would be a Peacock or a Penguin. I love how
the males in the animal kingdom work to proves there worth… I know I’m not the only
woman who misses being courted. In the states the courting process is pretty
simple, you find someone attractive you ask for their number, go on a date or
two, and then hit the sack. Courting Over!! Well to be honest it never really
began. Here is Morocco the courting process begins with a simple cup of tea.
The first 3 invites are usually just a kind jester, but by the time that fifth
invitation comes along you can almost bet that his trying think of the perfect
time to introduce you to his family. With that being said, avoid having tea to
many times with someone whom you have no interest in. Because while your
thinking “Dag dude, step off, I was thirsty!” his thinking “You drank my tea!”
So what happens on the other end when you are really feeling
someone and you come to every tea invite. How much tea most one person drink
before it is appropriate to let them know you are interested. It is important
not to come off fast and in a hurry because you will get the HOE stamp very quickly.
It’s all about timing. I’ve tried the subtle things like, batting my eyes and
giving my best googly look, but the only thing that came from that was “Are you
okay? Your eyes are doing something weird” so much for being subtle. I have to
admit this whole thing is kinda fun. So I guess for now, I’ll just keep
drinking tea……..P.S. I’m still adjusting to that leather jacket, jeans, and sandal
look.